Kids are always watching, so setting good examples and modeling positive behavior can help young athletes develop both on and off the playing field.

Let’s put it bluntly and cut to the chase; youth sports have the tendency to bring out the worst in parents. The competition, passion and intense emotions experienced when your child is on the field is a feeling of exhilaration like no other.

It’s important to keep in mind, however, that someone or some child is always watching. Modeling positive behaviors and setting a good example, while sometimes difficult, is essential to the development of young athletes. They, and even you, may not realize the lasting impression one’s behavior may have on a child, which is why instilling core values in young athletes is so critical.

Youth sports are rarely about recreational play anymore. The popularity of travel and tournament teams have become the “who’s who” in many areas throughout the country. Many families pay the outrageous costs associated with competitive programs and sign blank checks for registration fees, equipment, uniforms, and travel, just to name a few of the continuous expenses. The costs can be overwhelming for hardworking parents who are only trying to provide their children with the best opportunities.

But what is really being instilled subconsciously in these young athletes? Sometimes, being handed everything on a silver platter can lead kids to a sense of entitlement, and no concept of value or an understanding of the hard work their parents put forth to afford these luxuries; unintentionally instilling not so appealing character traits.

Developing a young athletes work ethic, compassion and integrity should be valued just as much as their athletic skills. Parents, coaches, and leagues can expose young athletes to endeavors off the field that can build these traits and provide a great sense of accomplishment and satisfaction. One example might be implementing fundraisers where athletes can provide a service to the community and earn donations to put toward their personal athletic expenses. This shines a light on the value of hard work and reduces the sense of entitlement. Participating in club fundraisers also provides unique communication and teamwork opportunities which players would ultimately benefit them on the field of play.

Right now, this season, your athletes are not just learning a sport, they are transforming into the adult they will become. And while life is fast-paced and at times chaotic, just remember, kids are watching and need to be given responsibilities and held accountable. After all, the chances of your young athlete becoming a professional are slim, so focus not only on their athletics but also instill the positive characteristics they will need to be a successful and compassionate adult sin the future.