Kids are watching, so setting a positive example can help develop players both on and off the field.

Let’s say it bluntly; youth sports have the tendency to bring out the worst in parents. The competition, passion and emotions experienced when your child is on the field is a feeling like no other.

Kids Are Always Watching

It’s important to keep in mind, however, that someone or some child is always watching. Modeling positive behaviors and setting a good example, while sometimes difficult, is essential to the development of young athletes. They may not realize the lasting impression one’s behavior may have which is why instilling core values in athletes is so critical.

Youth sports are rarely about recreational play anymore. The popularity of travel and tournament teams have become the “who’s who” in many areas throughout the country. Many families pay the high costs associated with competitive programs. Registration fees, equipment, uniforms, and travel are just a few of these seemingly continuous expenses. The costs can be overwhelming for hardworking parents who are only trying to provide their children with the best opportunities.

Subconscious Learning

It may seem harmless, but what are these young athletes subconsciously learning? Sometimes, being handed everything can create a sense of entitlement, without an understanding of the hard work put forth to afford these luxuries, unintentionally instilling not so appealing character traits.

Work ethic, compassion and integrity should be valued just as much as athletic skills in order to develop players on and off the field. Parents, coaches, and leagues can expose young athletes to endeavors off the field that can build these traits and provide a great sense of accomplishment and satisfaction.

One example are fundraisers where athletes can provide a service to the community and earn donations to put toward their personal athletic expenses. This shines a light on the value of hard work and reduces the sense of entitlement. Participating in fundraisers also provide communication and teamwork opportunities which players would ultimately benefit them on the field of play.

Focus On The Future

Right now, this season, your athletes are not just learning a sport, they are transforming into the adult they will become later in life. Kids are watching, so they need to be given responsibilities and be held accountable so they may learn. After all, the chances of your young athlete becoming a professional are slim, so focus not only on their athletics but also on the characteristics they will need to be a successful adults in the future.